Yesterday, both the Chicago Tribune and the New York Times ramped it up with pieces on issues greatly affecting the health of mothers and babies.

The Trib ran a great piece on the whole issue of VBAC and how it’s actually not as risky as it’s often presented to be and how it should be readily available  option for women.

Health Experts: Most Repeat C-Sections Unnecessary

Then the NYT ran a great article about a Brooklyn Lactation Consultant who provides women with wonderful breastfeeding support and advice.

The Breast Whisperer

Noruishing a Baby

I love her ground rules:                1. Enjoy the baby.   2. Feed the baby.

Sometimes the first few weeks of an infant’s life can be so stressful (ours was with our first) for new parents that rule number 1 can be forgotten.   I love that she sees her job not simply as getting breastmilk into babies, but fostering the relationship between mothers and their babies.

Underlying both of these articles, which appear to be about two very different things, is the issue of adequate support for women and families during the childbearing year.  Giving women the options, the benefits and risks of these options and then letting them decide which they are most comfortable with and then SUPPORTING them through the outcomes gives families a much better start.

Many times the disappointment I hear in women’s voices when they tell their story about breastfeeding or birthing comes not because of a bad outcome, but it comes at the point in the story when they felt most alone and least supported.  Had these same women been truly supported in a decision that they were allowed to make in those moments, instead of a decision they were coerced into, I believe that in the same situations with the same outcomes, these women would be telling their stories in a very different way.

Adequately supporting mothers and families during the birth year is definitely one major reason that drew me to teaching childbirth classes, serving as a doula, and referring women to La Leche League and lactation consultants when needed.  I support whatever decisions families make for themselves – if a woman herself chooses a repeat cesarean or to formula feed knowing all the benefits and risks on both sides, that is her choice.  What kills me is when women are backed into corners and finding themselves headed toward a repeat cesarean or formula feeding mainly becasue they didn’t have good support for the choices.